Day 7: Lighting the Fuse

December left me drained.  Emotionally, physically, and socially drained. So where do you find a spark when you lack motivation? I know the easiest way to create motivation is routine.  I need to get back into a routine fast. Routines lead to habits, and habits lead to lifestyle changes.  Maybe this month I will only get back into a routine in a few areas of my life, but at least that’s lighting the fuse.

1. Get more sleep. With kids, heading back to school automatically lends itself to regular sleep, and for the most part, mealtime schedules.

2. Clean up our meals & snacks.  The saying goes, “abs are made in the kitchen, not the gym”, and the dietitian in me knows it’s true.

Check out the Out of Milk App – load reusable shopping lists on to your phone, stick to them, and you are well on your way to cleaner eating.  Just having food in the fridge at home decreases the chance of stopping for fast food or pizza when mealtime comes calling (or in the case of kids, whining). Cook Eat Paleo has one of the better unprocessed lists I’ve come across, albeit too restrictive for some (side note: I have tried and cannot stand egg white powders). If you aren’t interested in buying all organic, look up the dirty dozen+ and clean fifteen at EWG.

3. Get more water. Start your day with a glass of water. Find a water bottle/jug/cup and carry it with you everywhere.  Refill it. Refill it again.  

4. Start the day on the right side. Find some quiet time (which may mean waking a little earlier – cringe).  Hide in the shower, read with a cup of coffee, meditate, or play music while you get everyone awake and ready.  Mommas, we set the tone of our home whether we want to or not.

I love Good Morning Girls, and they happen to be starting a study this week.  No materials or homework required!

New Year’s Resolutions

I have resolved not to resolute. 

Goal make, great. 

Determine to finish things I have long put off, sure!

Seek new adventures, you betcha.

Find a little peace in this world, I can hope.

Resolutions, diets, and unrealistic expectations, nah. 

I have no idea what you want to happen in 2016, I just hope I have inspired you to dig a little deeper.
Stick around, January is all about little changes that add up.

Time flies…hello 2016

Day 1: 

I often think about the old adage, “time flies when you’re having fun”. Well guess what? It flies when you’re not too. Last year was a lot of happy, frustration, sadness, hope, surprise, and dismay all tied together in one wonderful knot. Marriage, children, world events, and family life can do that to a person. 

Reflecting over the past twelve months led to an examination of the past thirty four years.  In so many ways I’m right where I always imagined I would be. In others, I’m  a world away.  I have witnessed and done things I never dreamed and I have truly remarkable people in my life. With the dawn of this year came the realization I will soon be firmly planted in the middle age mom category. Friends, there are a few things on my laundry list that I have dorked around with for far too long.  It’s time to stop jacking around and get down to it.  

I have had fun years, hard years, and “I don’t know how I ever did that” years.  There have been years of great change and great joy.  I’m not sure how this year will end up, but at the starting line there is great determination in the air. I’m looking for a little inspiration, a lot more adventure, and one memorable ride. Tick tock y’all. 

The Bottle Rocket Effect

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Flash & Sparkle — makes me think of fireworks.  Which reminds me, bathing suit season is quickly approaching.  30 days to drop a jeans size! 90 DAYS to TOTALLY TRANSFORM YOUR BODY!,  6 Weeks to Bikini Ready, 8 Weeks to Your Best Body Ever! It seems like every gym membership trial, workout DVD series or crash exercise plan has an expiration date.  Change your body by _________ or BUST!

I think that’s why so many of us get discouraged, frustrated, or just give up.  If we can’t achieve the results we want in a short amount of time, we burn out.  We go like great guns, and then fizzle out.  We’re like bottle rockets.  By July 4th, we’re looking for the security of those bulky winter sweaters and writing off another summer of not having the best body ever.

What if we looked at it differently?  Like a whole 4th of July display. I didn’t get in this shape overnight, and I’m not going to change back into something else overnight.  One day at a time, one short term goal at time.  Start today with a walk, tomorrow a swim, or a bike ride.  Who knows?  In a couple of weeks, a weight lifting program, gym trial, or jog.  We can’t all magically walk into a gym or buy some plan and poof transform into He-Man or He-Woman.  Sometimes the most profound change is the gradual one.  It sneaks up on you, you become absorbed in the small changes, and just like the firework display on the 4th, end up with one awesome grand finale.

We need to build up.  Start with one healthy step and add on.  Start with some exercise, try a healthier way to cook a favorite recipe, a new activity you want to try.  One push up, a few more seconds holding a plank, getting off the couch at the end of one of those work days.  It won’t be magical.  It may not even be fun.  It will take time.  Find something that sparks your interest and light the fuse.  It won’t bring awe that first day, but stick with it and you might just find yourself inspiring.